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- Admin
- 3 days ago
- 1 min read
Letโs be brutally honest.
Kids donโt spoil themselves. Parents spoil them.
Here are 5 โkesilapan kecilโ at home that slowly raise children who struggle with resilience:
1. Saying YES because youโre tired
Every time we avoid a tantrum,
we accidentally teach them that crying = winning.
2. Buying things just to make them happy
Happiness becomes something MONEY must create,
not character, not gratitude.
3. Solving all their problems
Zip their bag, carry their things, do their homeworkโฆ
Without realising, we raise teenagers who canโt stand on their own.
4. Never letting them be disappointed
Kids who never hear โnoโ
become adults who canโt handle rejection.
5. Treating them like theyโre fragile
They are stronger than we think.
Itโs us who panic too fast.
This is not about being harsh.
Itโs about raising children who can survive the real world, not just a comfortable home.
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